Quotes from David Whyte


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A soul-based workplace asks things of me that I didn't even know I had. It's constantly telling me that I belong to something large in the world.


The thing about great poetry is we have no defenses against it.


To regret fully is to appreciate how high the stakes are in even the average human life; fully experienced, it turns our eyes, attentive and alert, to a future possibly lived better than our past.


Without the compassionate understanding of the fear and trepidation that lie behind courageous speech, we are bound only to our arrogance.


We speak continually of saving time, but time in its richness is most often lost to us when we are busy without relief.


The marvelous thing about a good question is that it shapes our identity as much by the asking as it does by the answering.


There's a fierce practicality and empiricism which the whole imaginative, lyrical aspect of poetry comes from.


It is not the thing you fear that you must deal with: it is the mother of the thing you fear.


To admit regret is to understand that we are fallible - that there are powers beyond us. To admit regret is to lose control not only of a difficult past but of the very story we tell about our present. To admit sincere and abiding regret is one of our greatest but unspoken contemporary sins.


I don't have an all-embracing vision which people have to buy. I'm simply trying to work with the struggles we all deal with every day while we're trying to live out our personal destinies and make a living at the same time.


There are millions of people living Thoreau's life of quiet desperation, and they do not have the language to escape from that desperation.


Honesty is grounded in humility and indeed in humiliation, and in admitting exactly where we are powerless.


Honesty allows us to live with not knowing. We do not know the full story; we do not know where we are in the story. We do not know who, ultimately, is at fault or who will carry the blame in the end.


Sincere regret may be a faculty for paying attention to the future, for sensing a new tide where we missed a previous one, for experiencing timelessness with a grandchild where we neglected a boy of our own.


In Germany, they have great difficulty with anything that smacks of cultism or messianic leadership. You can't talk about leadership in its charismatic forms.


The greatest luxury of having money should be not having to worry about it.


There are many tough conversations, but one of the most difficult is between a parent and an adolescent daughter, partly because as a parent we are almost always attempting to relate to someone who is no longer there.


Honesty is not found in revealing the truth, but in understanding how deeply afraid of it we are. To become honest is in effect to become fully and robustly incarnated into powerlessness.


The frail, vulnerable sounds of which we are capable seem to be essential to a later ability to roar like a lion without scaring everyone to death.


The ultimate lesson is that there is no immunity, no matter our age or the size of our retirement account, from going through constant cycles of integration and disintegration in which we are humbled and hopefully set to rights with the world again.