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Le Corbusier is an outstanding writer. His ideas achieved their impact in large measure because he could write so convincingly. His style is utterly clear, brusque, funny and polemical in the best way.


What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.


I am conscious of trying to stretch the boundaries of non-fiction writing. It's always surprised me how little attention many non-fiction writers pay to the formal aspects of their work.


The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can't accept that.


It's almost a blessing when we meet people who naturally want to do the sort of things that are in high demand in society. What a gift to do that, as opposed to other people who would say, 'I want to be a novelist but actually I have to be an accountant.'


My greatest joy comes from creativity: from feeling that I have been able to identify a certain aspect of human nature and crystallise a phenomenon in words.


On paper, being good sounds great but a lot depends on the atmosphere of the workplace or community we live in. We tend to become good or bad depending on the cues sent out within a particular space.


I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.


I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.


There are few more effective ways to promote tolerance between suspicious neighbours than to force them to eat supper together.


Pick up any newspaper or magazine, open the TV, and you'll be bombarded with suggestions of how to have a successful life. Some of these suggestions are deeply unhelpful to our own projects and priorities - and we should take care.


We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.


Status anxiety definitely exists at a political level. Many Iraqis were annoyed with the US essentially for reasons of status: for not showing them respect, for humiliating them.


I am always anxious.


I was uncomfortable writing fiction. My love was the personal essay, rather than the novel.


I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.


I was foreign and Jewish, with a funny name, and was very small and hated sport, a real problem at an English prep school. So the way to get round it was to become the school joker, which I did quite effectively - I was always fooling around to make the people who would otherwise dump me in the loo laugh.


The Arab-Israeli conflict is also in many ways a conflict about status: it's a war between two peoples who feel deeply humiliated by the other, who want the other to respect them. Battles over status can be even more intractable than those over land or water or oil.


I waste most of the day, then finally start to write around 3 P.M., totally disgusted with myself for my wasteful nature.


It's clear to me that there is no good reason for many philosophy books to sound as complicated as they do.