Quotes from Mary Karr


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On a piece of prose, you have to work at least six hours a day. I don't know how you can do that and teach and raise a kid and paint the house.


The thing I have to do as a writer, and that God permits me to do, is that I have to be willing to fail.


I was a philosophy major as an undergraduate, and I'm just an arrogant little thing. It's hard for me to admit that I can't understand something, let alone not be in charge of it.


My idea of art is, you write something that makes people feel so strongly that they get some conviction about who they want to be or what they want to do. It's morally useful not in a political way, but it makes your heart bigger; it's emotionally and spiritually empowering.


The truth is when I went to graduate school I would've said I was among the least talented of the students, I was certainly the least smart, or less educated. But I worked very hard.


Writing about prayer to a secular audience is tap-dancing on the radio. I want to say, 'Gee whiz, isn't this great,' and have everyone's head cocked like the RCA dog.


Young writers often mistakenly choose a certain vein or style based on who they want to be, unconsciously trying to blot out who they actually are. You want to escape yourself.


I believe in God, but even if you don't, you can believe in a self, the person who is innately who you are. Once you fully become that person, then everything you do will be blessed.


Prose cannot compete with the economy of poetry, the ability to have a full artistic experience in a short period of time.


Poetry privileges music and is aesthetically more challenging. Prose privileges information and is emotionally more challenging.


Success has affected my self-definition in that I have more money. Writers pooh-pooh that idea, but it's a huge deal.


Most of the people I write about I'm still in touch with, so I would be loath to make up stuff about them.


I've never contended that I had a really horrible life.


I'm not nearly smart enough or imaginative enough to tackle the novel form. Never happen.


I'm always terrified when I'm writing.


I think we fall in love and become adults and become citizens in a way by writing stories about ourselves.


I think the problem with visual media like TV is that they're reductive.


I tell people not to write too soon about their lives. Writing about yourself too young is loaded with psychological complexities.


I don't think I look like the pope's favorite Catholic - at least not under close scrutiny.


Having a great dad probably permitted me to pal around with guys in a way that some women don't.