Quotes from Candace Bushnell


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The '80s was all about this idea that women could have it all. You could have a career, and you could have a husband, and you could have children.


I started working for the 'NY Observer' when I was 33. After I had been writing for them for about a year and a half the editor said, 'Your stories are the most talked about stories in the 'Observer'; you should have your own column.'


It's a job. When I'm writing I'm going to do it five to six days a week and I'm going to work for four to six hours a day. There's no magic writing fairy. It's just hard work.


Like it or not, in the end, it's one's body. It's literally what carries you through life. There's a reason for the saying, 'If you have your health, you have everything,' and it's true. Old age, disease - these are the great equalizers.


The fact that a man is open to being with an older woman suggests that he doesn't give a hang what other people think of him. More likely, he's confident, open-minded and willing to make his own rules.


We need to encourage young women to find what they love to do. That is a very valuable pursuit - more so than the pursuit of a boyfriend. When you have that core, you bring that core to every aspect of your life.


Well in the book Carrie was my alter ego. In real life, Sarah Jessica and I don't look anything alike. But people do say that we sound alike. Sarah Jessica is an adorable girl and she is very funny.


I've been writing fiction probably since I was about 6 years old, so it's something that is second nature to me now. I just sit down and start writing. I don't sit down and start writing and it comes out perfectly - it's a process.


What I have yet to see is a real woman choose a younger man because he spent six hours a day at the gym trying to sculpt his abs.


There's so many things that mattered so much in my 20s and 30s that don't matter now.


You need characters who want things. They want love, they want recognition, they want happiness.


Sometimes you have to find the passion. It comes from the inside... Everyone has to find it for themselves.


Sometimes I want to be on 'The Real Housewives of New York.' I want to remind them to figure out how to get along and support each other.


New York is a city where people are ambitious. They want things.


I'm really enjoying being single. I'm not even looking to meet anybody, which is so freeing.


I think a young woman's relationship with her father is really important.


I started writing about New York as soon as I arrived. I was 19. I used to write short stories and send them out.


I love things that are old and glittery, that come with layers of glamour and past lives.


I love Chicago. I lived there briefly for three months and kept a boat under one of those space-age buildings. It was very Jetsons.


I know I'm not a wordsmith. And I don't write poetry. Sometimes I think I should, because it's really helpful. But I always wanted to write novels.